
This month I lose two friends.


I recently made contact with Pepe Marais after a few years of silence and we shared blogs
Gosh I don’t think I knew how to use a computer or even had a mobile when I started working for him at the Cape Town branch of Joe Public in 1999. And now we are both blogging!
I started as a receptionist and then a few months later got bumped to traffic manager when they called me in and said ”I was organized” and would I consider training to manage the workflow of the creatives. (This was all done while being a cocktail waitress to actually support having my own flat at 19 in Cape Town, which was virtually impossible on a start up salary with no work experience except for years of babysitting and working as a waitress in school!)
I realized why I loved working for him while reading the “scribbles from his mind”, my favourite – the one he wrote on people
Apart from that, generally all Pepe’s posts and the overall truthful insights about our fears and behavior changes we all face if we are committed to grow were great to read. To have someone openly share their humanity online - a businessman featured in May edition of Leadership magazine was humbling.
I just realized how lucky I have been to be surrounded by inspiring people in every place I have worked at (well almost!).
I hope I can be as honest and truthful to myself and those around me as he has been in his work and personal life.
Missing the Joe crew after a trip down memory lane! The pic was taken in 2000 when we went to Ratanga Junction on a team-building day.

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All proceeds go towards www.youthcarecentre.orgThis week I experienced two moments which showed me how much it means to go the extra mile in everything you do. It shows you CARE.
Make what you do everyday MEAN something to you.
I took my jeep in to have the aircon refilled with gas and the service attendant told me afterwards my doors were really squeaky and he had oiled both of them.
Yes this squeak had been bugging me for months, but this gentleman cared enough to do it out of courtesy without me asking.
The second person is my hair dresser in one of the small Lebanese places I pop in for a wash and blowdry. Even after being on her feet for 12 hours, she still manages to make me feel as if I am her first customer of the day – she loves my hair and as I have tons of it, most cringe at the thought of spending 45 minutes tackling the mane!. Yet she loves spending time making it look beautiful and even when I want to rush out to end it the session – she stills says – “no serum…please sit down, not finished”
Last week I facilitated an experimental pilot school video program.
This concept was a collaborative idea generated by Natasica Radice, Ernst van Der Poll, Maria Conceicao and myself and we approached FLIP Video Middle East with a skeleton of the idea and they agreed to sponsor the pilot.
Next we discussed running the program with GEMS World Academy during their week without walls community service program and so we had 15 scholars, 15 Flip Video cameras and an idea!
The idea was to teach the teens how to shoot, edit and upload a 3 minute video about their lives onto our test site, following a set agenda of points to cover: My family, my home, my school, my country, my hopes, dreams and my challenges. The aim was to mirror this project in a developing country and get the kids to gain insight into each other's lives using video as a platform. We aim to charge a fee and all proceeds go towards a cause in the developing community of the school that they engage with. Xische & Co jumped on board and offered to brand the project, which they are currently doing.
I learnt a lot this week. I was doubtful about what the kids in Dubai would get out of it. Did they want to know about kids in Malaysia, Durban of Bangladesh? Would they know what we already were trying to teach them and were they doing this out of choice or because it was the only 'free' community service program offered by GEMS. (Who took us on at a risk I might as we did not have a fully developed curriculum.)
All I can say is that day 5 of the 5 week program sealed all my doubts. Watching a screening of the final videos I flinched at times at the shaky footage, sometimes inaudible audio, but straight after that we went into a branding exercise held by Xische and this is where the kids rocked my world. They discussed at length the experiences they had over the week and I was blown away to hear how much insight they had into their lives during the course of the project.
Simone Weil, a French social activist says that learning is not important, but TO KNOW the meaning of what you learn is the secret.
Some of the kids said they started off feeling uneasy about sharing their lives with kids from developing countries who may not be as fortunate, but they realised that by sharing their lives and looking into someone else's life essentially made them the same. Just the act of risk-taking and sharing united them.
To have a child say, "my life and my point of view of my life was broadened by the very act of thinking about it and filming it" means these kids really started to grasp the concepts of seeing someone else's story and sharing their own.
That's community service! The start of developing a mind and heart that sees equality, unity and sharing.
Have a poke around our test site http://myshortvideo.ning.com/ and watch some of the videos and read their blogs!
I feel very blessed to to have befriended Maria Conceicao (Emirates Women of the year 2009) and get involved in her scholarship program.